Jacob And Laban Separate!
Genesis 31
In Genesis 27 we saw that Jacob traded a bowl of lintel stew to his brother Esau for Esau’s birthright when Esau was hungry. We also saw that their mother Rebekah told Jacob to disguise himself as his brother Esau and trick their blind father, Isaac, into giving him the Firstborn Blessing. Now because of Esau’s threats against Jacob, Rebekah decides to tell Isaac a half truth. She does not want Jacob to marry a Canaanite like Esau has, it disgusts her; but she does not tell of her trickery and Esau’s anger.
In Genesis 28 is the story of Isaac telling Jacob to go to his Uncle’s house to find a wife; then Isaac Blesses Jacob again: “Now may El Shaddai Bless you and make you Fruitful and multiply you so that you will become an assembly of Peoples. May He give you The Blessing of Abraham, to you and your seed with you that you may take possession of the land of your sojourn, which GOD Gave to Abraham.” (Genesis 28:1-4)
In Genesis 29-30 we see Laban and Jacob deceiving each other. Laban gets both his daughters married to Jacob in exchange for 14 years of labor. Jacob spends the next 6 years becoming a rich man while Laban’s fortunes decline.
Soon Jacob’s herd of sheep and goats was growing and Laban’s was not and Laban and his sons noticed. Jacob realized that he had lost favor with Laban and decided to leave, he spoke to his wives telling them that Laban had changed his salary 10 times and they saw they had no future there so they agreed (Genesis 31:1-10, 14-16).
So they pack up; and Rachel steals her father’s idols; and
they leave.
Jacob’s second deception of Laban: “…Jacob stole the heart of Laban the Syrian by not telling him that he was fleeing.”
When Laban found out 3 days later that Jacob and his family and herds had left he pursued them and caught up to them 7 days after that. (Genesis 31:22-23)
In a dream GOD told Laban: “Watch yourself – lest you say anything to Jacob, good or bad.” (Genesis 31:24) A very clear message to not be angry or seek vengeance.
So being careful but clear in his hurt Laban asked Jacob, “What have you done that you have stolen my heart and have driven my daughters away like captives of the sword?...and you didn’t even let me kiss my sons (grandsons) and daughters!” He also told Jacob that GOD had spoken to him about this meeting. Then added, “…why did you steal my gods?” (Genesis 31:26-30) Jacob replied, “Because I was afraid , for I thought you , ‘Suppose you snatch your daughters away from me. Anyone with whom you find your gods shall not live. In front of our relatives, identify what every is yours that is with me, and take it back.’ (But Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen them.)
Rachel’s deception of Laban: So Laban searched everyone’s tents and possessions, Rachel was the last to be searched; she had hidden the idols in her camel’s saddlebag and sat on it. She claimed that she could not get up because she was having “the way of a woman” (her menstrual cycle). So the idols were not found and Jacob got angry and told Laban off (Genesis 31:36-42).
So Laban remembering The Word of The LORD to him offered a covenant, “Let ADONAI keep watch between you and me when we are out of one another’s sight. If you mistreat my daughters, and if you take wives besides my daughters, though no one is with us, look! GOD is the witness between you and me…Behold, this pile and this pillar which I set up (actually Jacub set up the pillar (Genesis 31:45-46) between you and me: this pile serves as a witness, that I won’t pass by this pillar to go to you, and that you won’t pass by this pile and this pillar to go to me – with evil intent. May The GOD of Abraham and the gods of Nahor, the gods of their father, judge between us.” (Genesis 31:49-53a)
Jacob made an oath by the fear of his father Isaac, then he made a sacrifice on the mountain and they ate bread and spent the night on the mountain (Genesis 31:53b-54).
GOD tells some of his Servants to do things that He tells the
rest of His Servants not to do!
Remember, Paul tells us that before the Law (Torah) sin was not imputed (Romans 5:12-13), which was good for them, for the wicked behavior and deceptions continued through the rest of the history of Abraham’s descendants, even after the Law. James says, “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin.” (James 4:17) Just because we see the sins of others not being judged by GOD does not mean that we can commit them ourself. Every human being will be judged by GOD; first, according to how we live, then if our name is in The Book of Life (The Lamb’s Book of Life) (Revelation 20:11-15).